Samantha Humphreys

Art, Photography, Inspiration & Education

Category: Journal Therapy

Art and Self-Care: February’s Journey of Renewal

Look at the gorgeousness of the snowdrop that was tucked away from the path; very few will have set their eyes on it. I have loved seeing them for as long as I can remember. These are just so delicate and pure-looking, yet they possess a strength that allows them to stand tall, even under the weight of the heavy rain from the night before.

It’s hardly surprising that February is my favorite month. It marks the arrival of the first signs of spring, as the snowdrops and cheerful daffodils begin to bloom, lifting our spirits after the winter and the dreary January days following the chaos of Christmas. Today, is my birthday which I always seem to treat as a fantastic opportunity to reflect, reset, and re-energize.

I have spent the day indulging in some mooching about, despite the persistent rain that has tried, but failed to darken the day. I am currently eating cake, drinking tea and watching Death in Paradise, which can’t help but make me feel warmer.

It’s funny how as I get older, I have never been one of those people who view a birthday with a sense of impending doom, dreading the extra year older as though this isn’t something to celebrate. I see each year as an achievement and a chance to question what have I done better in this past year? Well, I am healthier and taking practical steps to make sure I stay as healthy as I can be. I am more knowledgeable, I have learned so much about life both through experiences and research and I am excited for more therapeutic art exercises that I can now develop through what I have learned. I am grateful for everything and everyone I have in my life and I am eternally grateful to have Take That tickets for June!!!

Tomorrow I will be taking myself out on an artist date, one of the invaluable lessons that stuck with me when I read The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron a few years ago. This practice of nurturing my creativity is crucial; I am off to The National Portrait Gallery, The National Gallery, and Tate Modern, where I plan to totally indulge myself in the art of Picasso, Freud, Warhol and the many other artists I am familiar with as well as some I am not. I will walk everywhere as I usually do as I prefer not to have to navigate my way around the underground. The underground feels rushed and confining; it interrupts the purpose of the day too much. By walking, I get to see more than I would if I were crammed into a crowded, sweaty tube. I can take spontaneous detours, pause to appreciate unplanned street art, and simply enjoy the outside air, all of which feeds my need for constant inspiration.

Happy birthday me!

Balancing Life with Art: Techniques for Clarity

Grounding (2026) Watercolour on sheet music

I talked in my last post of restarting my year as it went a little awry mid January. I have reset my workload so it is a little more balanced and, I have started a cycle of decluttering both my home, art room and mind. Clearing my mind has not been something I have ever been able to achieve; when someone says “empty your mind,” what happens to me is that my brain panics, and every thought I have ever had starts whizzing around my head like a chaotic whirlwind.

However, I can use art as a means to focus. There are several exercises I have written for journaling that really work for me. By concentrating on the process, whether it’s the soft, flowing motions of watercolours or the crisp lines from a black fine liner (and I believe both mediums together create a marriage made in heaven!), I’ve found a way to channel that restless energy. It’s easy to block out the challenges of life by mark-making in those small, delicious moments of creativity. The more I practice these techniques, the easier it becomes for me to not ’empty my mind’ entirely but rather to recall the calming process of the art exercises. This recall can gently bring me back to the present moment, offering a reprieve from any noise that might be in my head.

Today was a bit different; the day was a little brighter and clearer, allowing me to enjoy a long walk, a luxury I haven’t had time to indulge in recently. Instead, I have been settling for several shorter walks, which are nice but don’t quite compare to the liberating feeling longer time out. It was refreshing to have the chance immerse myself in my audiobook.

In addition, I have been writing workshops that I am running soon and developing lessons to sell online. Of course, I’ve been immersing myself in making the art necessary to write these lessons, ensuring that I carve out these small mindful moments into each day. These activities not only fuel my creative spirit but also provide an avenue for self-exploration, allowing me to connect deeper with my artistic side. My commitment to maintaining balance and mindfulness is more than just a goal; it’s becoming an integral part of my life.

Finding Balance: Why We Need Our Stabilisers

Stabiliser (2026) Watercolour on paper, 5x5cm

We were out walking last Sunday afternoon and we walked past a young family; the parents were teaching their daughter how to ride a two-wheeler bike. “I remember my dad teaching me to ride my bike after taking off the stabilisers.” It seemed to take ages until I got the hang of it. It got me thinking though, why? Perhaps it wasn’t cool to ride a bike with stabilizers; you were a baby if you still had them on your bike, according to the older kids.

We have many challenges that we need to overcome throughout life. Why do we need to take something away that makes something easier for us? Yes, if you want to race bikes, it wouldn’t apparently be as exciting a sport if there were stabilizers hindering you going around corners, but most of us don’t race. Do we do this with other things? Yes, we do. For example, does anyone need to learn, if they find it a struggle, to tie shoelaces? Don’t get me wrong; I’m not saying don’t bother teaching it. We absolutely should continue to teach our children life skills, and the joy on their little faces when they overcome these little challenges is priceless. But there is so much to learn. If one thing is a struggle, give them slip-on shoes, and later on, they can learn to tie their laces (if laces haven’t been phased out of our lives completely, because let’s face it, they are a trip hazard).

Last week, I became unwell very quickly while I was out. I had a migraine of enormous proportions, and I could barely stand. I couldn’t bear to look at anything; I couldn’t eat anything as I was so sick, and using my phone was out of the question. I was worrying about how I could cancel my work. As a freelancer, I was responsible for contacting students to cancel. It kind of got done—badly—but it got done, and I just sat in a darkened room. I knew that this was a migraine and that it would pass, but I knew then that I had spread myself too thin. Every minute of every day is filled with something to be done. I feel a failure if I miss something, cancel something, or have to let someone down. Yet, if anyone “lets me down” in the same way, I totally understand because it’s not letting anyone down at all.

Back to the stabilisers. We need our stabilisers, and these are different for everyone. I don’t mean family/house/job, etc. My stabilisers are walking and journaling; they are essential for my balance of well-being and calm. This is not about what we do that we think is best for others; we have to take responsibility for ourselves and our own well-being. Otherwise, our future self won’t be around or of any use to others.

So, I’ll take a step back, create a ‘not’ to-do list, and reset my start to 2026.

Finding Joy in Simple Moments: A New Year’s Reflection

Winter Trees (2025) Paper Collage

Despite starting the new year with a headache (not alcohol induced), I was thinking about how 2025 was exceptionally good to me. Reflecting on the past year, I realized that taking a leap of faith by setting myself up as a freelance artist and tutor was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. The uncertainty was daunting at first, but with hard work and determination, it has worked out in my favour. I now feel in control of my professional journey, and the flexibility of freelance life has allowed me to cultivate a good work/life balance that I struggled with so much before. My daily interactions now, Remind me of the passion that originally fuelled my decision.

For some of my friends and family though, the year has dealt some devastating and heartbreaking blows. Life is indeed short, and amidst all the unpredictability it brings, one of the most important things we can do is take charge of our mental and physical wellbeing. It’s essential to prioritize our own health and happiness, even when faced with challenges. I’m not suggesting that anyone should recklessly abandon life as you know it, but I encourage taking a small step toward doing something you’ve always wanted to do, a ‘dream’ (a cliche, maybe a better word is … aim, or intention) you’ve put on hold for too long.

There’s a lot to be said for a cliched bucket list, for instance, sunrises are undeniably beautiful, and the best part? They are free, available to everyone in any corner of the world. Getting up early also makes me feel virtuous and taking a moment to appreciate a sunrise and take a breath, gives me the chance to mentally plan my day. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not all conducive to the spiritual experience it sounds as I’m usually multi tasking already taking my little dog out for her toilet walk, but, you know….thats nice too.

Additionally, decluttering physical objects really helps to declutter your mind. It’s more than just tidying up; it’s therapeutic. It allows you to create space for new experiences, or just create space. By clearing your environment, you can create a peaceful sanctuary that contributes positively to your mental state.

Oh, and before I forget, I must remind you to wrap up warm and go outside tonight (3 Jan). Look up at the sky; the Quadrantid meteor shower will be amazing! Watching the stars blaze across the night sky is not just a beautiful spectacle but can be immensely soothing to the soul. The best viewing times are usually around or after midnight, so gather a few blankets, perhaps a warm drink, and enjoy this cosmic display.

So, instead of the usual celebratory New Year post filled with standard promises, hopes, and resolutions that often fade by February, I will simply say this: I sincerely hope that 2026 is good to you. May it bring you joy, fulfillment, and countless opportunities to embrace everything that life has to offer. Take the time to forge connections, create memories, and above all, chase after the things that set your heart on fire.

Why September Feels Like the Real New Year

I have always felt that the new year is more to do with September than January. even when I wasn’t working in education. It is ingrained into us from age four. We were taken shopping for new black shoes and a new pencil case (because this one is so last year). We also sometimes needed a new school bag and pumps. Finally, the pièce de résistance, the pencils, fountain pen and ink cartridges, and new felt tips!

I have always loved this time of year. As a child, it was the thing I loved most about school, apart from art lessons. Mum would take me into town to WH Smiths in Liverpool City Centre. We would buy these things the week before school started. I would feel confident that my tools and accessories would help me to succeed.

Now I have a huge room size pencil case and I still have the excitement of a child at the thought of buying new supplies. This ‘pencil case’ is not only where I can make art. It is also where I can share my joy and excitement with others. Ultimately, when I have finished my organisations, It will not only be a space for teaching art but a space that evokes a sense of calm. In my role as a journal therapist, I have built a portfolio of effective creative exercises. These exercises aim to free the mind of intrusive thoughts. They help in buying back precious moments of lust for life that have been earlier lost.